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|| Saturday, July 31, 2004 || || 7:30 pm ||

Do You Remember The Last Times?
  1. When exactly is the last time you sat down with your family for dinner?
  2. When exactly is the last time you went out together with your family and enjoyed each other's accompany?
  3. When exactly is the last time you thanked your mother for her cooking?
  4. When exactly is the last time you decided to surprise everyone by getting them each a small gift?
  5. When exactly is the last time you kissed your parents goodbye before leaving for school?
  6. When exactly is the last time you spoke your heart out and shared your feelings with your mother?
  7. When exactly is the last time you told your father that you needed him close although he works odd hours?
  8. When exactly is the last time you shared a huge secret with your sibling?
  9. When exactly is the last time you played a board game with your family?
  10. When exactly is the last time you whispered to your parents that you love them?

When? When?
When? When?
Or is this easier to think....?

  1. The last time you wished your mother saw you crying so that she could ask you what was wrong..
  2. The last time you wanted to have dinner so badly but realized that there was no food...
  3. The last time when your entire family sat down for lunch only to end with quarrels within 5 mins...
  4. The last time your father worked for almost 24hrs and you don't even get to see his face...
  5. The last time you wanted to share something with your mother but you were shunned away because the TV was more important...
  6. The last time you had to secretly kiss your parents goodnight because you were afraid that you would get scolded for waking them up...
  7. The last time you had already made arrangements to bring your family out but someone had to back off and ruin everything for no reason
  8. The last time you decided to put away all your work to spend time with your family only to realize later that they would rather spend the time sleeping
  9. The last time you had an outing with your family where everyone was walking 10 metres away from each other, thinking or doing their own things
  10. The last time you told your parents "I love you" only to hear them say "I have something to attend to"

Does your family mean a lot to you?
Or rather how much do you mean to your family?
Do you wish for a change at home?
Are you taking the efforts to change?
Are you willing to be the change?
Do you think that you alone changing would help?


So am I to be blamed?

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For Special - Seeking You...

You are who you are, who you want to be. Whom you are not, no one can force you to be. For whom you are, not all would accept it to be. Their question is Who Are You? My question is Who Do You Want To Be... You? Or the You that people want to see?

I have been wrapped with the same questions before. Have always felt that I am not what others think I am. But the thing is you do know within yourself who you are. You definitely do. Just that several things said to you tend to affect or even change the way you perceive yourself. So you begin questioning your ownself, thinking that you are being pretentious...

My advice to you... Seek yourself. Don't ask for help from others! No one knows you better than you! If you feel that you are not what you want to be...then be that woman! Be that woman you want to be.... be true to yourself! Please do... Once you begin cheating...it would be difficult to snap out of it...

I have seen you before... the real You.

It's just that when you get wrapped by people's opinions, circumstances and changes... you tend to adjust yourself to fit into the picture. But there is nothing wrong in that. You are just adapting. The only time it becomes wrong is when you don't do it willingly. When you are compelled to act in a certain way...then that would make you feel terrible...so juz don't do anything that makes you feel not you...don't pretend!

That is why you can only let certain things go if you really want to... If you put your heart and soul into it..you will be able to do it. My question to you is When Are You Ready For It? If are not ready, then don't. Don't compel.

Now I wonder if I went OOP...out of point..haha well hope you do understand what I was trying to say..

Break through the drawings of what people have drawn about you...No one is the best painter of your own portrait except for yourself!



__________-HER-__________