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Saturday, February 12, 2005
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Friends...Friends...Friends
A lot of people seem to be having friendship issues these days. I remember the first time I lost a good friend in Primary 1. Well, she competes with me in class and all and yet she was one of my closest friend in school. Until, when someone new got posted to our class and this new girl intervened into our friendship and literally created stories about each of us and ruined our friendship.
That was in P1. It didn't quite matter to me actually. Some time last year I met her again. And gosh she has changed a lot. We spoke to each other but it felt so weird. And we didn't even ask each other for our numbers. That mattered to me. Like I just let go of a friend easily...
Hmmm, well I think friendships have taken a new meaning for me as I grew older. Today, in poly, I realized that friendships are really important in life... you could lose a lot of things but not a good friend.
It takes a lot to work friendships out especially in times of misunderstandings and etc. Although it may really sound easy to say that I don't care anymore, somewhere within us there is a tiny unknown part that really wants to work things out.
Maybe it is because we feel that is worth it. Or maybe because we want to work it out for all the good memories we had shared with them. But sometimes it gets too much. We really wanna let it go. Don't see the point in working it out. I think, that is the true test of friendships, working it out at the darkest time.
It is already the last lag in poly. I guess it would a good time to work friendships out and leave school with good memories.
Hmm, but sometimes you know the way friends push us to the wrong side. Or worse they take advantage of our existence. They know that as long as you are alive, they can graduate from school.
All they need to do is to call/msg you on the eve of project deadlines/test to ask you for the work/what is going to be relevant for the test. And poof! they know it already and as long as you continue doing this you are drawing them a path not to learn but to cheat...
If they don't want to help themselves, why bother helping? Perhaps instead of being nice, try saying no for once. And you could make a difference. Perhaps he/she could learn that its time to kick his/her a** up to do the work himself. Really! As long as there is someone for him/her to rely on, he/she will never learn.
So would you rather snap and say NO so that your friend could learn to do things himself or continue saying yes and fearing every minute if your own friend would copy your work and about whether someone would find out about it. Your choice! But really you should decide.
btw, where the hell are my secondary school friends? I miss them so much!!!! ARGHHH
oh vday is around the corner... that also means 15th is around the corner.. which also means that 3 project deadlines are coming along! WOW really sth to look forward to ah? crapZoo...
seasons' + duckie's call...OI!!! 17th confirm or not? swimming? PLS PLS PLS
my duckie...hang in ther hon..don't dwell too much onto things ok? will get thr all these proj then can spend many many endless time together ok? *muackz*
jasmine... wru? wru? wru? i wanna meet up with u soon...
sharita... thanks for being such a darling, helping me answer my weird redundant qns on msn abt TWP and Arbitration...
tammy... woman, got apply for university or not? this woman ah needs constant reminder lor!
latha... wishing ur daddy a speedy recovery...be strong and dont worry too much abt any other things..tell me when u are free, we'll meet for lunchie
azi... haven seen u in sch lately. hehe dont stress urself too much ok? and DONT think so much ya.. anything dial WE REALLY CARE: ME! or HER!
kay... am still trying to figure out why u told me the other day at biz park that i scare u? am i that scary?!
sash...u shd STOP finding too many guys n stick with one..haha pls!
althea...i wanna meet up with u n tuty!! OI..! (if she reads this)
P.S: I want to go shopping and swimming!!!
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