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|| Saturday, November 26, 2005 || || 12:33 pm ||

A little peek into the e-mails I've been getting from Christian Carter who has an ebook "Catch Him And Keep Him".

There's one mistake that almost all women make with men they're interested in.

The mistake is allowing yourself to become OVERLY EMOTIONAL around the person you're dating in a negative and self-destructive way.

So what CAN you do about a man's issues?

Step 1: Learn to IDENTIFY and SCREEN for"emotionally available" men

One good way is to ASK HIM.
But wait, isn't that too easy?
And won't that "scare him off"?
No, this won't scare him off - IF you do it the right way.
UNLESS... He's the kind of guy you probably don't want tobe with anyways.

Step 2: Develop clear STANDARDS for the kind of men you'll spend your time with, and stick to them

Here's step two on what to do about a man's issues.
NOTHING.
They're not your issues.

TONS of women have a FATAL FLAW when it comes to men and relationships.

They'd rather look at the POTENTIAL that a man has for a relationship rather than at the current REALITY of the man's "emotional state".
Don't make this DANGEROUS mistake.

You might be sitting there right now saying to yourself,
"But there's this guy that I like and I thinkhe could be the right one for me... and he's justacting a little weird right now. He'll figure itout. And I should HELP HIM by telling him what Iknow is wrong and work through it with him."

WRONG.

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